Thanksgiving and Gratitude

November 23, 2010 — 11 Comments

I was having a conversation with a close friend the other night and she shared with me the story of an uncle who passed away from cancer this past summer. As I listened to story after story I couldn’t help but notice the impact his life had made on hers. But it didn’t end there; sprinkled in each story was tales of how other family members lives were touched in similar ways. Over and over I heard, “you just can’t comprehend how special he made everyone feel, each in our own individual unique way” or “when I was with him it made me feel so important every time I saw him.” As I was driving home, that conversation caused me to pause and take inventory of the people in my life, past and present, who left similar marks on my life.

The thing I love about Thanksgiving is the fact that the only exchange which takes place is the exchange of stories in the midst of sharing our time with friends and loved ones. So before settling into your Thanksgiving routine this week, the food and the football, I challenge you to take a similar inventory of those who left a mark on your life, and to do it prior to Thursday.

-Who is the person or persons who impacted your life in such a way that it left such a mark on your life that you now feel compelled to share it with them?  

-And if they are no longer with you, is there someone close to them whose Thanksgiving would be so much more meaningful, and may be even a little less painful,  if you shared with them the difference that their loved one made in your life?

-What’s stopping you?

Remember that the first Thanksgiving was celebrated to give thanks to God for helping the Pilgrims of Plymouth Colony survive their first brutal winter in New England. So in that tradition….please don’t won’t let this Thanksgiving pass without sharing your appreciation to those who made a difference in your life. And I do hope you will leave a comment below about the person or persons whose life impacted yours so everyone who reads this post share in honoring them this Thanksgiving.

I’ll be the one to start in the comment section, but I also want to take this opportunity to say thank you to all of you who have visited Leveraging Life the last four months. I know your world is a busy place, so for you to spare a moment or two and read what I post is something I value greatly.

So I thank each and every one of you and hope you have a Safe and Gratitude filled Thanksgiving!

~Tom

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Tom Martin is a Devoted Husband and Stepfather to teenage sons. As a cancer survivor, Tom shares his story and life lessons of what trusting God period looks like when facing adversity and setbacks. Tom operates a Subaru dealership North of Atlanta and serves at North Point Church as a Hope Mentor.
  • Tom

    Mom & Dad,
    You’ve offered me a life filled with lessons and support regardless of the season of life I was in. Some lessons I got and others I missed, but without question you made it clear that regardless of the situation you would always be there for me.

    Be it the child who never quite made it home before the street lights came home, be it a knuckle headed teen who “borrowed” Mom’s car when he was 14 trying to impress his buddies only to bend the axle after hitting a curb, be it the arrogant young adult who after graduating from college thought I was through learning lessons and felt it was my turn to be the teacher, or be it a humbled 40 year old with a failed business who you helped pick up the pieces and taught me the difference between failing and failure was what takes place after mistakes are made.

    In all the life we have seen as a family, the life lesson that has impacted me the most and made the biggest difference in my life is the commitment you both have made to each other and our family. In 47 years of marriage you have seen more than your fair share of challenges but through the good and not so good you never wavered on that commitment, which is a lesson I hope one day I’ll be blessed with the opportunity to put to use in my own life.

    Happy Thanksgiving and I love you both, see you Thursday!

    Tom

  • Molly

    Tom,

    What a lovely write up and it’s so true to the spirit of Thanksgiving. It is definitely my favorite holiday and so much more so after all we have been through as individuals these last few years and as a family as well. It’s been an interesting journey! I enjoy the time to truly gather with those that you care about and love – just gather, enjoy each other’s company and each person participating in making their favorite traditional side for the table for all to enjoy. Without family – what is there really? And of course health too. Thanks for your write up, I am looking forward to Thursday!

    Love you – MM

    • Tom

      Mol,

      Thanks for taking the time to comment and you’re right, without family & key friends who are like family, life is just an existence without meaning or purpose. The only guaranty in life is you will have both joy and sorrow, so with family you have the ablity to share the joy and halve the sorrow!

      Thanks to you and Jeff for opening the farm to us yesterday to do just that…..celebrate everything we are thankful for as a family! It was a great time even if you wouldn’t let me play Christmas music because you didn’t want to “blend” the holidays ; )

  • Shari

    Thank you so much for posting this! And thank you for the encouraging all of us to focus on what really matters at Thanksgiving.

    I have SO much to be thankful for, and there are so many who have had an incredible impact on my life… and on Michael’s and Matthew’s lives. The biggest regret I have for them is that their parents were not able to give them the greatest gift any parent can give their children: a strong marriage. But I am so, so thankful for the many people in our lives who show them that there is such a thing, and who model what God really intended husbands and wives to be for one another: Grandma and Grandpa, Mom and Dad, Michelle and Jim, Danny and Lana. Thank you for the gift you have given to your children… and to mine. I love you all.

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    Shari

    • Tom

      Shari,

      Thanks for your comments, and truth be told to all the Leveraging Life readers you were the “close friend” who shared the stories about your Uncle Mark. I wish I would have had the chance to have met him, especially after listening to you and Michelle share stories about him a few weekends ago. But one thing I’m certain of is that as I meet the rest of your family I will come to know him through them as well. And even though I said it yesterday…..thank you for the difference you are making in my life!

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  • David

    Tom,

    Thanks for being you. Your message let us stop and think about how much we are all blessed. It is truly the people in our life that are most important. You being one of them.

    David

    • Tom

      Thanks David!

  • http://dewde.com dewde

    Great thoughts, Tom.

    peace | dewde

    • Tom

      Appreciate the read Chris and your taking the time to comment! Ties nicely into Andy’s message this morning at NP, BC, BB.

      Take Good Care!

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